“Hoy no duele, mañana sí.” Today it doesn’t hurt, tomorrow it will. That was the standard my team held each other to, every game — and it’s not about pretending pain doesn’t exist. It’s about knowing when to push through it and when to shut it down. Both are skills. Most players, and a lot of coaches, never actually learn the difference. They just guess, under pressure, in the moment it matters most.

Hurt

Something that makes you wince but doesn’t stop your body from doing its job. A jammed finger. A bruised hip. A stinger that fades in a few seconds. You’re sore, winded, tired, banged up — but everything still works the way it’s supposed to.

Injured

Something that stops your body from doing its job safely, or puts you at real risk if you keep going. A joint that won’t hold. A hit to the head that left you foggy. Pain that gets worse instead of better as you move.

The test

If you need a doctor, you’re injured — go get checked, no debate. If you don’t need a doctor, you’re hurt — and hurt means you get back up. That one question, asked honestly, settles almost every sideline decision a player or a coach will ever face.

Playing hurt is the standard in this sport — that was the deal the day you put the pads on. But playing hurt safely starts with knowing exactly which one you’re actually dealing with.

— Coach Fern